Have i done the right thing?

Okay, that is weird. Sweetie, communication is the key. You don't need that in your life. You want someone you can be open with and be on the same page with each other. trust me, I know. I can't tell you how I have talked to guys who are emotionally stunted and try to make me look like the problem. No one is perfect, but if you're willing to try with someone who is real as you are and don't act like stuff happen and it is okay. Then you know you got the right person in your corner. You're better off without her. You need someone who gets you. :)