Child neglect or time to find a new job?

Quadriplegic means that hes completely paralyzed from the neck down, he wouldnt be able to move anything but his head, I think youve got some terms mixed up. Theres a difference between having parenting skills that are frowned upon and having parenting skills that are detrimental to the children, and I would say it is the latter and there is definite reason for concern. It definitely sounds like there is some serious neglect and inappropriate behavior going on. 3 years old is far from being a baby, he should have been off the pacifier and the bottle at least two years ago, should be sleeping in his own bed, and he should be well on his way in potty training, it sounds like they arent potty training him at all. These practices are severely effecting the childs jaw and teeth and will cause multiple health concerns and psychological issues in the future. None of the children should be going to sleep with a bottle of milk ever, none after having their teeth brushed, it will rot their teeth straight through. It sounds like all three children are being psychologically impaired by the way they are treated. The most troubling thing is the perverted remarks that the father makes toward you, a minor. Someone sexually harassing a child by talking about their genitals and how much he wants to have sex with them is definitely a concern to the children in his care, especially the little boy who sleeps with him. I am usually very hesitant about contacting CPS if there isnt any clear abuse, but I really feel its necessary in this case. These kids need to be taken out of that house before the damage becomes permanent.